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STOP WAITING FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO TREAT YOU LIKE YOU’RE SPECIAL. START DOING IT FOR YOURSELF.
The Virtual S.A.S.S. Experience + Ask Me Anything After Party
February 12 | 10 AM PT
BE YOUR OWN BESTIE LIVE
Led by Misha Brown
With Special Guest Alethea Crimmins
You’ve been handing out main-character energy and showing up for everybody but yourself.
Maybe you’ve been the fixer, the therapist, the emotional support human…for other people’s emotional issues.
Maybe you’ve been shrinking, smoothing things over, or settling for “it’s fine” when your soul is screaming, IT’S NOT FINE! It’s absolutely not.
Or maybe you’ve just forgotten what it feels like to choose yourself first without needing a permission slip.
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When you finally understand that your needs aren’t negotiable, confidence starts to feel natural, boundaries stop feeling like betrayal, and clarity becomes your baseline.
If you’re ready to remember who the hell you are…
You stop apologizing for existing
You stop choosing relationships that drain you
You stop settling for crumbs
You stop disappearing into the background of your own life
HOW TO GET YOUR FREE VIP TICKET
When you claim your copy of Misha’s debut book, Be Your Own Bestie, you’re not just getting a seat at the event. You’re also getting exclusive access to the private Ask Me Anything After Party that will take you beyond the conversation…and into transformation.
Your Free VIP Ticket includes:
Misha Brown has built a global community by doing what he does best — telling the truth, cracking a joke, and reminding you that you are the damn prize. With millions of followers and countless viral moments, Misha has helped women (and men!) find the confidence to clap back, set boundaries, and stop settling. Now, in Be Your Own Bestie, he’s giving you the guide that changed his own life — with his trademark humor, heart, and a whole lot of S.A.S.S.
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PRAISE FOR BE YOUR OWN BESTIE
When you stop shrinking and focusing on everyone else, everything in your life shifts.
Join Misha Brown for Be Your Own Bestie LIVE: The Virtual S.A.S.S. Experience + Ask Me Anything After Party.
You’ll get two hours of grounded, hilarious, emotionally intelligent real talk (+ a wildly fun and honest Q&A) where Misha takes you through his S.A.S.S. method—the four steps that helped him rebuild his confidence, sobriety, and self-worth after hitting rock bottom.
S.A.S.S. stands for:
Self-Reflection Is a Bitch — Take an honest look at how you got here.
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Affirm the Shit Out of Yourself — Rewrite the stories holding you back.
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Stand Your Ground — Protect your peace, your boundaries, and your sparkle.
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Sculpt the Life You Want — Because you deserve a life that reflects your best self.
No bubble-bath clichés.
No “just think positive” nonsense.
No spiritual bypassing.
Just pure, unadulterated S.A.S.S.
What does that mean?
Hour One: The Wake-Up Call
In the first hour, you’ll see S.A.S.S. come to life. Misha will help you:
See where you’ve been abandoning yourself
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Rebuild your confidence from the inside out
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Stop shrinking to keep the peace
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Stand your ground without guilt
So you can finally love yourself out loud — without guilt, apology, or permission.
And he’s not doing it alone.
For this special event, Misha is joined by Alethea Crimmins, known globally as the “Positivity Queen,” whose brilliance, emotional depth, and no-BS insight bring an extra layer of clarity to this work.
Hour Two: Ask Misha Anything (Live Q&A)
The second hour is a live, unfiltered Ask Misha Anything—and this is what makes the pre-order special. Only people who order the book will get access to this part of the event.
So get the book now and ask anything you want...about...
See where you’ve been abandoning yourself
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Rebuild your confidence from the inside out
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Stop shrinking to keep the peace
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Work, family, friendship, self-trust, people-pleasing, burnout—bring it
And Misha will answer you the way he always does: with honesty, humor, emotional intelligence, and zero fluff.
Live Zoom access to Be Your Own Bestie LIVE
A space where you are allowed—finally—to take up space
Exclusive Access to the Ask Me Anything After Party with Misha
Bonus Resources + Event Replay
Live Zoom access to Be Your Own Bestie LIVE:
Join Misha and special guest Alethea Crimmins for a powerful, truth-filled session walking you through the S.A.S.S. Method in real time—so you can see exactly where you’ve been abandoning yourself…and how to stop.
Exclusive Access to the Ask Me Anything After Party with Misha:
Bring your questions, your truth, your stuck places—and Misha will dive into answering with the same mix of humor, clarity, and heart that millions of people love. He’ll offer insights cuts through noise and hit home. Nothing scripted. Nothing surface-level.
Bonus Resources + Event Replay:
The First 2 Audio Chapters of Be Your Own Bestie—Before the book officially drops, you’ll get instant access to the first two audio chapters, read by Misha himself.
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14-days of access to the replay so you can revisit all your favorite parts.
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The S.A.S.S. Starter—Misha’s mini-guide of four bite-size practices that jump-start your self-worth era. Think of it as your emotional espresso shot: short, strong, and guaranteed to wake up the part of you that forgot how powerful you are.
A space where you are allowed—finally—to take up space.
You’re stepping into a room where your needs matter, your voice matters, and your growth is the priority.
Social media personality Brown debuts with a chatty guide that aims to help readers “begin showing up for yourself in the way you deserve.” He recounts how heavy drinking and tumultuous relationships derailed his professional acting goals before a 2018 reckoning in a hotel room prompted him to rethink the insecurities holding him back (“What would you say to your bestie right now if she were saying these things about herself?”). Drawing from his subsequent efforts to get his life back on track, the author explains how readers can identify damaging beliefs and coping mechanisms that erode self-esteem, “affirm the shit out of yourself” by embracing personality quirks and refusing to accept poor treatment from others, and begin “shaping your reality with intention” by clarifying goals and working to achieve them. Brown’s caustic humor (“What good is a dead bitch?” he asks in a section on emotional exhaustion) bolsters his refreshingly direct wisdom on how to live more authentically. Fans and newcomers alike will get plenty out of Brown’s sharp and sassy insights.
– Publishers Weekly
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Alethea Crimmins—The International Positivity Motivator Alethea Crimmins, known globally as the “Positivity Queen,” lives by uplifting mantras like “Be Great iIn Their Face” and spreads joy through her signature “Ya’ Welcome!” As the vibrant host of the “Pimpin’ Positivity with Alethea Crimmins” podcast, her loud but gentle voice resonates, empowering millions.
YOU DESERVE HAPPINESS
You deserve hope. And you deserve a best friend who refuses to let you settle for less.
Misha didn’t write Be Your Own Bestie because he thinks you need fixing. He wrote it because he knows what it feels like to lose yourself in the noise—to shrink, to over-give, to settle for versions of life that barely hold you together.
This book is your reminder that you are not here to survive your own life.
You’re here to shape it.
It’s a mirror that reflects the parts of you you’ve ignored.
It’s a megaphone for the voice you keep quiet.
And it’s a loving shove toward the version of you who doesn’t settle—not emotionally, not energetically, not ever again.
Truly inspiring and hilarious, this book is the bestie you need to build the best bestie in you. A beautiful work that can be beautifully applied to your life by way of practical advice and soothing affirmations. We need more of this bestie energy everywhere!
– Margaret Cho, actress and comedian
